You’ve met this woman before. She’s the woman who was trapped in an unhappy marriage for too many years. The woman who wondered if her sexual side would ever have the chance to break free…or if she would be caged forever. Fortunately for her–and for the rest of us–52-year-old Lacey Westin broke free. This 5′8″, 144-pound, athletically-built brunette is finally living out her sexual fantasies…part of which includes getting naked in front of the cameras for our viewing pleasure. We’re glad she picked 40SomethingMag.com for her debut.

40Something: Are you a swinger, a nudist or both?

Lacey: Most swingers are usually nudists. We’re all exhibitionists. We’re all comfortable and confident in our bodies, and we feel good about ourselves. The thing is, I’d wanted to get into that lifestyle for a long time. I’ve always had this other side I wanted to explore, so I finally took the leap just two and a half years ago and decided to do it. I said, “I’ve always been thinking about it. I might as well take the leap and go do it,” otherwise I’m going to be looking back 20 or 30 years from now and saying, “I wish I did, but it’s too late now.” So I started dabbling in the swinger lifestyle, and I enjoyed it. It’s mainly the sexiness that I love. It’s not about the sexual part. To me, that’s a fringe benefit. I love the sexy, glamour, flirtatious part. The tease. And that’s something I’d always had to keep in the background because if you’re in a relationship, and if you’re being flirtatious out in public…I didn’t want to be accused of wanting to cheat on my husband. So that other side of me had to be kept locked up, but now I’m going to do whatever I want to do.

40Something: How come you waited until two and a half years ago to get into your current lifestyle?

Lacey: Well, I turned 52 last January, and when I turned 50, that was my time to say, “The next part of my life is a whole new chapter.” I’ve always looked at life like my cup was half-empty, and now I’m ready to go on to the next phase in my life and express that sexiness and that flirtatious side of me, that teasy side that I love. I can tease the guys real easy! I’ve been to a lot of parties where there are a lot of swingers, and I have a lot of fun teasing. They love it.

40Something: Let’s go back to the whole tease thing: When do you take it past the tease?

Lacey: If somebody really turns me on. The seduction is a mind game, and if you seduce someone, obviously the mind’s going to start playing along with it. And if you know you’re going to play with someone, there has to be some physical chemistry. And then you have to know you can communicate. But I actually prefer the tease. And you know what I really like? When I walk past guys and I know, because I can see out of the corner of my eyes, that they’re watching me. Or once I was on a date, and we were really getting into it out on the dance floor, and it was at a regular club, not a swing club, and when we were walking out, this guy said to the date I was with, “Man, you are one lucky son of a bitch!” and my date said, “Why?” And he said, “You have one hot woman there.” And I was like, “Yeah!” I liked that! My date loved it, too.

It’s hard to believe (because she looks so damn good!), but you are looking at the oldest woman to ever appear in 40Something. Her name is Christy, she turned 68 this past June and what’s even more impressive is that she’s also our oldest covergirl ever. “It’s incredibly exciting,” she said. “This is one of the highlights of my life.”

“It’s fun for me when guys try to catch a peek at me in public, looking down my blouse or up my skirt,” Christy said. “The best are the looks that I get on the beach. Guys of all ages like shapely boobs, asses and long legs. And hey, I like the attention of guys of all ages. It’s a blast giving my nude business card to an unsuspecting guy who has been checking me out in public somewhere!” Now, she can show her admirers her pictures in 40Something!

“I’ve never sucked a guy who didn’t cum faster from my smoking blow jobs,” said Lacey Grant, who has entered the swinging lifestyle since making her debut in the December ‘07 issue” to her pictorial in that posting. “Some guys might say they don’t like women who smoke, but I’ve never heard a guy say that while I was sucking his cock and blowing smoke all over it.”

“The first thing I do when I give a smoking blow job is light up the cigarette real sexily, then blow out the smoke real slowly,” Lacey said. “Then I’ll take the guy’s cock out of his pants, inhale the cigarette again, then blow puffs of smoke on it. By this time, the guy is always rock-hard and he’s practically begging me to take him in his mouth. So I take another puff of the cigarette, open wide to take his cock in my mouth and let the smoke float out of my mouth and all over his cock while I’m blowing him. That’s when a lot of guys cum.” Lacey is a very kinky lady considering that she’s a housewife and mother. She’s a house dancer in a strip club and is proud of the lap dances she gives. “Most guys shoot a load in their pants before they have a chance to get a second song,” she said. “That might be bad for me money-wise, but it’s a great boost to my ego. And that’s what counts.”

How many times have you fantasized about fucking your boss? Never? Yeah, we thought so. But chances are you’ve never had a boss as sexy as Natasha, a 45-year-old divorcee from Southern California. Now, when this video starts, Natasha is being a bitchy boss, and that might be a turn-on to some, but not to one of her workers, who’s sitting there fantasizing about her. Her bitchiness breaks him out of his fantasy, and he’s thinking, “Fuck, I’m in trouble.” No trouble. But fucking, yes. She says she’s noticed him watching her. He confesses. What else is he supposed to do? Damned if you do, damned if you don’t, right. In this case, he’s damned neither way. He’s blessed by Natasha’s mouth and pussy. Our favorite scene in this video comes at about 14:40, when Natasha bends over, lifts one fuck-shoed foot onto a chair and gets nailed from behind.

My day, Sage is a sales representative for a major soft drink company. But on weekends, she likes to dress up in kinky outfits, looking for men to bring home and fuck. “I think it’s pretty impressive that I’ve managed to keep my job for so long considering that I come in just about every Monday morning having spent the weekend fucking. And when I say fucked, I mean high-energy fucking.”

We love Sage’s pink pussy, we love her ass, but we really have our eyes on those long, thick nipples. “I’ve always had big nipples considering that my titties aren’t very big,” she said. “My nipples get real hard real quickly when I’m turned on. Guys love sucking on them and since it gets my pussy so wet, I don’t stop them. It feels even better if they do it when they’re fucking me, drilling my pussy and sucking my nips.”

“Most people at work would probably be very surprised to see me doing this,” Sage said. “I mean, I’m a very conservative, professional dresser at my job. I tend to wear dress pants and button-down shirts and short heels. Maybe that’s why I love dressing up like this so much, because I get to be the woman I really want to be. I’m divorced, and when I was married, we lived in a very prim-and-proper neighborhood and my husband never wanted to do anything exciting in bed. I remember one time, he actually got mad when I swallowed his load. Can you believe that? And if I ever dressed sexy to go out, he’d make me go out and change. The other night I saw him while I was out with my friends, and I was dressed pretty much like this. I actually saw him blush. I thought, ‘You’re missing out, baby.’”

Here’s Raquel Sieb on the same tennis court we saw her gracing last issue when she made her 40Something debut. Except this time, she has a partner. An instructor, actually. You see, like we said last time, Raquel doesn’t know how to play tennis. And by the looks of things, she’s not going to develop into an ace any time soon. “I can’t play tennis but I sure can suck cock and fuck,” she said. “I say stick to what you’re good at, right?”

On-court anal is a skill that has been mastered only by the all-time greats, and Raquel is ready to join them. She knows that to be an ass-fucking winner, she needs to take it harder and deeper, all the way to the bottom of her asshole. “I love getting fucked in my ass,” said Raquel, who can be seen enjoying her favorite sex act in the DVD Fuck My Old Ass 2. “Getting fucked in the ass on a tennis court was fun. I like tennis!”

“I was really ignorant about sex,” said Nikki Reed, a 41-year-old divorcee from San Diego. “Since I have worked full-time my whole life, I really didn’t have women friends to confide in. My husband didn’t know Jack shit about pleasing a woman. And then I was raising my kids, and who had time to think about sex or anything else during those years?”

But then Nikki found out that since the third year of their 21-year marriage, her husband had been cross-dressing and moonlighting as a drag queen in gay clubs. Even worse, he was having an affair with a man named “Tina.” She filed for divorce the next day. The minute it became final, she laid out plans for her new life.

“I thought about all the things that I hadn’t done and that I was going to make time to do now. And the first thing on my list was to have an orgasm. I went out and bought my first toy and a bunch of pornos, maybe like 20, and I think I spent about four days in my bed, watching dirty movies and cumming over and over again until my pussy was so tender, I couldn’t fuck myself anymore. That was when I discovered that I liked to have something in my ass. It started with just one finger and then two. Then the vibrating part of my toy, but by the end of the day, I was fucking myself in the ass with this rubber cock. I loved it!”

After Nikki had discovered the joys of self-pleasure, she wanted to go out and experiment with men, as many of them as she could find. “I love having sex, but the anal is what really drives me crazy and makes me cum hard,” she said. “I’ve never been happier or more satisfied. I’m living my life the way I want to live it. And since my divorce, my ass has had a lot of company!”

When we told Sasha that, at 40, she’s the youngest woman in this issue of 40Something, she laughed and said, “I’m just a kid, huh? Well, I’m sure I could teach even your oldest models a little something about pleasing men. I’m not trying to sound conceited. I just put a lot of effort into it.”

Sasha said she keeps a touch of hair on her pussy because “I don’t want my husband to forget that his wife’s a redhead when he’s eating my pussy. It’s one of those things that sets me apart. I’ve thought about growing it out all the way just for the shock value, but I like a more clean-shaven look. Besides, I like to look down when I’m fucking and see my husband’s cock going in and out of my pussy. I’m a very visual person.” Sasha is very easy on the eyes, and video of a cock going in and out of her red muff is coming to 40SomethingMag.com. “My husband doesn’t mind,” she said. “We’re swingers, anyway. He gets off on watching other men fuck me, and this is the ultimate in voyeurism because not only is another man fucking me, but so many guys will be watching it, too.”

Barefoot Sasha hops up onto the desk and spreads her ass so we can get a good look at her gaping holes. Hey, aren’t you paying attention to the chalkboard? This is biology class, isn’t it? “I spread my ass like that because I want to make sure you cum when you look at my pictures,” she said. “Did I succeed?”

Here’s Ginger Taylor, 46 and from Texas, wearing an outfit most women half her age wouldn’t feel confident wearing. Some might say it takes guts to wear what she’s wearing, but guts isn’t what it takes: It takes tits. Ass. Curves. “I’m not sure I would’ve worn this when I was 23,” she said, “but now I know what I’ve got.”

This is Ginger’s second appearance in 40Something. The first was in the January ‘09 issue, and Ginger enjoyed seeing her sexy pictures. “They were a big turn-on for me and every man I was with,” she said. “I loved showing my pictures to men and seeing their reaction.” When Ginger showed her pictures to men, the reaction usually was…”a hard-on. A raging hard-on. One guy I was with admitted to me later that he’d been having trouble performing, but he didn’t have trouble that night. Not after he saw my pictures, he didn’t!”

The word MILF has kind of lost its meaning. Its literal translation is, “Mother I’d Love To Fuck,” and this implies, of course, that the woman you’re talking about is a mother. Is she 20something? 30something? 40something or 50something? Doesn’t matter as long as she’s a mom. Or does it? Doesn’t the word MILF imply mature woman, someone at least in her 40s? We think it does.

Which brings us to Charley Rose, who’s over 40, really is a mother and is obviously very hot. The word “MILF” defines Charley, who has a body any man would love to fuck, whether he’s 20, 60 or in between. And here, Charley shows that a few hours spent with her would be time well spent. The woman obviously knows how to fuck. She’s a MILF. And we’d love to fuck her.